This is my latest artwork. Birds of a Feather! 

My little one came stumbling into my studio oh so early this morning and I had just finished up this piece of art. I asked her, "what do you think?" She replied, "awhhh they're snuggling, but I don't think that little guy in the middle likes it much." (giggle giggle)

I paused for a moment and said, " you're right, he doesn't look too happy."

I said, "that reminds me of you when your sister wants to love and hug you, and you wiggle and squirm away all the time."

She scrunched her nose up and started to giggle. She knew what I meant.

But this gets me wondering about God's love for us. 

Do you wiggle and squirm when God wants to reveal His love to you? 

I know sometimes I do. Not intentionally. But with the businesses of my life I just don't stop and let the Lord love me, guide me or heal me. 

In Psalm 46:10 says,"Be still and know that I am God."

Am I'm still enough to let Him perhaps convicted me of a sin that needs to be confessed and turned away from? Am I still enough to hear from His holy spirit? Or am I still enough just to let the Lord love me, as my youngest says, "snuggle me."

In Zephaniah  3:17 it says, "He will quiet you with His love."

My prayer for you is just quit wiggling. Slow your life a little, and let the Lord reveal himself to you. Let Him snuggle you, let Him quiet you with His love!

I love this scripture. Just a few verses ahead of it. Jesus gives the Pharisees and religious hypocrites a good tongue lashing. As I read these passages. I could hear the frustration in Jesus words. How these so called "religious leaders" are suppose to be leading people to God...but they do anything but; with all their rules, pride, and sin. They just don't get it. 

Have you ever been so frustrated with someone that has been so haughty, and self righteous? Ugh... I sure have...and it frustrates me. Guess what? It frustrates Jesus too.

But then when he gets to vs. 37....you see the softness, the tenderness of our Savior. He lamented, he wept, he felt sorrow for Jerusalem who rejected Him! Even tho He loved them so much He was going to die for them.

There are a couple times I remember reading about Jesus that he wept. Here, and when Lazarus died. When I read that Jesus wept, it brings me comfort. Not that I'm some kind of sick person that loves when other are sad. But that I have a savior that can relate to me and visa versa. That can understand when I'm frustrated, that understands when I feel hurt by someones rejection, that weeps when a loved one is lost.

Have you ever gone through something painful and a while later were able to help someone else through that same kind of pain? Perhaps you were just there to listen, and hug them and say "I know, I know." Because you DO know, you've been through a storm, and came through it.

I know there are a lot of hurting people out there. That have been rejected, that have been hurt, that have lost loved ones and the pain is overwhelming! Can I bring you some words of encouragement today?

God loves you, He understands what you are going through. He wants you to come to Him...and when you do he will say..."I know, I know." He wants you to turn; turn away from your sin, your hurt, your rejection.... for He wants to comfort you..just like this sweet mama hen and her baby chicks. Jesus said in Matt 11:28 Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.

I pray for all who are hurting, and feel lost. Trust in the Lord and His promises; for he has a plan and a future for you, and He loves you with an everlasting love. May you find peace and comfort knowing that.

Ps....if you are in need of prayer today. Just send me a little message. I'd love to pray for you today.
God Bless!!

Last night we had to discuss the topic of "respect" in youth group. Ugh!! Not the most fun topic to discuss with teenagers. But it seemed it need to be discussed nonetheless. For the most part it was well received. But unfortunately we had few that seemed oblivious and could have cared less what we were saying, we could have had 6 heads and shot fire out of our mouth and it would have not made a difference. Sigh!

So on our ride home from Wed. night church activities. The van is always full of conversation of how the night went. (keep in mind I always keep confidential what kids share with me in my group). My oldest pointed out that some of the kids were very disrespectful during our talk about "respect." I said, "I know!! I'm so frustrated! I'm not sure how to handle it."

Then the little voice from the peanut gallery spoke up from the back of the van (my youngest), she shared a story she read in her awana book that night. It was about a boy who pulled a girls hair and this little girl was having a hard time loving this boy who was always causing trouble. So I asked, "How did she handle this little boy?" She then read 1 John 4:10-11: "This is love; Not that we loved God, But that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear Friends, Since God so loved us, We also ought to love one another."

My youngest added, " it's simple mom...you just have to love them...even when they aren't nice."

Wait...who's the parent here?? Who's teaching who?? Thanks kiddo for the reminder. Love at ALL times!!

Another chapter to add to my book of lessons I learned from my kids.

If Not Us..Then Who?

My husband and I work in our churches youth group. Through the years of working with kids in various programs one thing I realize is….This world is broken mess!! Satan is having a field day with our families and the kids pay the price. Thank goodness we have a Savior...whew!!

There are nights I come home from our youth group at church and I weep for the hurting kids. Some of them have major struggles and obstacles that NO child should ever have to face. I turn my eyes to heaven and say," God why don’t you do something?"….Most  times I hear him say “I did…I created YOU!! “

The above words are to a song, but man do they hit home for me.

We have had many a lesson with the kids on being salt and light in this world…which is much easier said than done.  It’s always easier to say...well someone else will do something.  But what if everyone had that attitude? Yikes!! This place really would be hell on earth.  Just think if the disciples had that attitude. The good news of Jesus would have never been spread.

Youth ministry can be very challenging and very rewarding. Many of the kids are far from mature in their faith. Some of the kids are behaviorally challenging; they act on impulse, they say things that make us cringe. They run hard after God, but sometimes fall just as hard in the process.  It’s our job to pick them up, brush them off, and show them what Jesus love looks like. And through it all, it’s us, the adult leaders that learn that we serve a very big God!!

We shuffle teens to music concerts, we walk the halls of nursing homes with these teen  singing carols and watching faces light up. We shush when they talk too loud or and give the eye when giggling at inappropriate times. We breathe in air that no human should breathe in. We break up fights, we dry tears, we listen, we hug, but most of all we love a 1 Corinthians love.

I can see why serving the youth would be intimidating. With all the challenges, problems and frustrations that come with adolescences.  Why would anyone want to get involved?

Well I have asked myself that a time or two; especially when I’m dragging my behind in to church on a Wednesday night after a day of being pulled in a million different directions with my own kids and work. Trust me the couch sounds really good.  

But let me share just one experience that happened during one of our small groups. 

  

It was a lesson on love, and forgiveness. A girl shared with us that she hadn’t seen her dad is 4 years.  Tears streamed down her young face.  She shared with us she just couldn’t figure out why her biological dad didn’t love her. She wondered what she did wrong, what was wrong with her?  Sigh!!  This is when the holy spirit shows up BIG TIME.

I can’t remember all I said to this beautiful girl. But I can tell you this…God used me because I was open to be used.  I poured God’s truth and love into this girl. But what was even more beautiful is that the other girls in the group poured love into her too. They laid hands on her and prayed over her, and they cried with her. It was one of the most beautiful things I have ever experienced, and you could feel a very holy presence of God in the room. She felt love, she felt excepted, and she felt worthy. I thought to myself isn’t that how we all want to feel?

Now this is how God uses people!! Gives me goose bumps!!

You can tell a child Jesus loves them. But it takes YOU listening, praying and investing time with them. Only then will they FEEL the love of Jesus. 

You serve because that’s what Jesus did.  For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."(Mark 10:45) 

I personally don’t serve so I can boast; it’s to bring glory to my father in Heaven.  I serve because I want each one of these kids to fall in love with Jesus and live a life on fire for the one who saved them.  I serve because this world is broken and we all need the love of a savior.  I serve because each child needs to feel excepted, worthy, and loved.  That happens when God says “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?” And I said, “Here am I. Send me!” (Isaiah 6:8)

If not us…then who? Have you ever felt a tug to work in youth ministry? Let me encourage you to give it a try.  It’s not just rewarding for the kids but yourself as well. Are you opened to be used by God?

Father God, I thank you for your mercy and your love. Help me Lord when I want to grumble and complain and feeling overwhelmed by the burdens of this world.  Lord help me to trust in you with all my heart when kids come to me with their problems. Help me to see that you have a plan and a purpose for them, and that you work all things for good. Help me to lean not on my understanding but may I submit to you Lord and your will for my life. Make my paths straight Lord. Continue to give me a servant’s heart lord so I can point the youth to you. Help me to keep my eyes fixed on you Lord the author and the finisher of our faith.
I pray these things in Jesus name. Amen

If not us, then who? If not me then who? Right now, it's time for us to do something.
If not now, then when? Will we see an end, to all this pain? It’s time for us to do something. ~matthew west

Growing up??

My oldest daughter and I were getting excited as the school year was winding down. We were going to redesign her bedroom to make it a little more teenager like as soon as summer vacation started.  We look at pintrest for different ideas, and paint colors. We bought some cool posters to hang. I was moving them around to see where they would look best. 

I said, “why don’t we just hang this poster up over your ponies till we can paint.” (Her room has two pony murals) All of a sudden her face went white. She started to get tears in her eyes. 

“Mom, I don’t know if I want to do this.”

“Do what?” I asked.

“Change my room.” She replied. “I just really love my ponies, but I really would like a change too. I just don’t’ know what to do. I’m so confused, what is wrong with me?”

We sat down on her bed, and I told her I understood. You see she is at an age where hormones are raging; logic and reason are replaced with whirlwind emotions. It’s such confusing times for kids. I’m discovering, that’s where we, as parents need to be the calm in the middle of their storm. 

I stared to explain, I get what she was feeling. I shared a story with her when I was about her age and I still had this urge to play barbies with my little sisters, hide and seek, and strawberry shortcake. I had fun playing with them. It was familiar and fun. We had a great time with our barbies and the adventures they would go on. 

But I knew that I was too old to be playing barbies, and this conviction of “you shouldn’t be playing with those things, you’re all grown up.” Hit me, I entered into the “Fear Factor.”  Fear of the unknown, the unfamiliar. What does “growing up” mean? That is scary for a young girl. I totally get where my daughter was at.

But I assured her that her new room will still be “her room” just improved. She can still like ponies, pink, and all things that scream girl; But to open her mind to new things. To trust that it will be beautiful.

As I walked out of her room, and went about my day. I heard the Holy Spirit speak to me.  "You are no different than your daughter. Don’t you do the same thing when I call you to step out of your comfort zone and serve me? Don’t you step back and go Whoa!? I hear you say “that’s scary, that’s unfamiliar, I can’t do that.”

A flood of reasons to why I can’t serve, go flying through my mind.

You see there are specific times in my life the Lord has asked me to serve him in one way or another, or has asked me to do something that was very uncomfortable to me. But He used those times to draw me closer to Him.

For instance, I felt Him call me to serve in our youth group ministry, and awana ministry. But as He called me, there was Satan whispering in my ear. “You don’t know enough about the bible to teach the youth. You shouldn’t do that.” There it was again, the “fear factor.”

But when Satan attacks, how did Jesus handle it?  He fought him with scripture and truth. I rebuked Satan in Jesus name, and said “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” He will guide my paths. (2 Timothy 1:7) So I served, and still serve. Praise the Lord! It is so fulfilling, and the kids teach ME more than I teach them. It’s beautiful!

Then there are times He calls me to forgive people who have hurt me. Ugh, this one is hard, hard, and hard!! “I can’t do this Lord; the pain is just too much. I didn’t do anything wrong to this person, I didn’t deserve their rejection, their painful words, their hurtful actions.”

It’s then I hear His words “Forgive them father, for they know not what they do. Forgive just as I forgave you. For if you love them, they will know you are mine.” So I do, (tho very difficult at times) the freedom I get from it, is beautiful.

You see there was a time in my life where I did everything on my own. I fixed everything; I tried to make everything perfect. I was running the show. But it’s when life hits you upside the head, with trials or hurts, or when things DON’T go the way YOU planned. That God reveals himself to you in a might way, and you realize what dying to self means.

It’s those times I cry out and say, “I can’t do this anymore God.” 

He says, “I know child, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."

So I submit, and say,” yes Lord, I WILL boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.”  2 Corinthians 12:9

Let me just encourage you if you have heard that still small voice inside you. Asking you to step out of your comfort zone to do something for the King, Tho it may be scary, uncomfortable, and unfamiliar. My advice to you is, enter into the “fear factor” with God’s truth and do it, even if you are afraid. 

You rebuke satan in Jesus name and say, “I’m trusting in the Lord with all my heart, and leaning not on my understanding; I will submit to Him, and he will make my paths straight.” Prov. 3:5-6

Even if you fail, He will always be there to pick you up and brush you off again. He is ever faithful!

Just like when I told my daughter to trust me, to open her mind to new things and her room will be beautiful.  The Lord wants you, wants me, to renew our minds; for He make ALL things new and you can trust it WILL be beautiful.

You Are A Masterpiece!

Besides being a artists, wife, and mother, I work part time as a lunch lady at our local middle school. One day I was washing down the tables in the cafeteria, when one of the girls I painted a mural for a few years ago started talking to me. She said that her sister painted over the mural I did for her. "yeah she painted it all purple." My jaw...dropped!!" I could barely utter the word..."what??" "Why?" I asked. She shrugged her shoulders and went on her merry way. I just stood there, and a flood of memories, and emotions came over me.

 I remember how excited I felt about that opportunity to paint a underwater mural. I  studied different techniques of blending paints, researching different underwater creatures and coral, studying the reflection the light gives underwater, and all the time I took to prepare for painting this mural. I also remember my aching body from the physical effort it took to paint it. The bending, stretching, and holding my breath hoping paints would blend the way I wanted them to. But what I remember the most was the joy!! The indescribable joy I felt when I finished. The smile that came across my face as I stepped back to take the final look of this mural. (see below for the mural)  It was so beautiful. It was breathtaking. Oh how I love using this talent that God has blessed me with!!

Sigh...but now all covered up...with purple..(gulp) paint...gone... in one swipe of a brush, or roll of a roller. My heart broke. :( (Now don't get me wrong I know it's totally up to the client to do what they want when they buy my art, it's theirs after they pay for it.) Free will...yep...I get it!

But my conversation with that girl, got me thinking of God. I wonder if that's the way He feels when we destroy His creation. When we hurt our bodies with drugs, alcohol, smoking, overeating, etc. What this must do to the Fathers heart. I also wonder, does it hurt Him when we look in the mirror and we hate ourselves? We hate the way we look, it may be your hair, your nose, your smile, your butt, your stomach. Whatever it is that you don't like about yourself. What this must do to the Father's heart, to hear your rip on yourself. When we are made in His very image. 

I imagine Him taking great care in creating us. Just like I do to create a piece of art. You are like a blank canvas to Him. I can picture His face smiling saying I'm going to give her blue eyes like ocean, or I will give Him strong shoulders for heavy work. In Eph 2:10 it says. For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

For years I had a horrible self image. I let satan whisper to me and tell me lies about myself. It wasn't til I started digging into God's word and it revealed to me how much God loves me. Let me encourage you stop ripping on yourself, stop hurting yourself! You are created for SO much more!! You are God's masterpiece, created in HIS image...and as my little girl says.."God don't make junk!" Amen!!

What Are You Filled With?

This last week's lesson for our youth group was Do you know you were created uniquely for a plan and a purpose?

As we broke off into our small groups, where we do some in depth sharing. I guess as in depth as you can get with 11 and 12 year olds. LOL! I asked the girls do you know what it means to bring Glory to God, and if so, what are some ways we could do that? "crickets...chirping..silence. UGH!
Time to roll up my sleeves and get busy!! :)

We always do a high low game before we start. We start with everyone's high points of the day, and then their low. They LOVE this. This is such a wonderful way to end our session too, because we give thanks for the good, and pray for the difficulties these kids face. One of my girls shared her low point, she had to sit by a weird, smelly boy for lunch, because the teachers are assigning seats at lunch time. Ugh, and she went on to tell us how disgusted she was, and that is just wasn't fair.  Sigh!! The holy spirit instantly put the song..."Love Them Like Jesus..Show them to Him."  I let her vent, and then...I got out my M&M's.

I asked the girls you are all Christians ..correct? Did you know you all have a mark on you (in) you called the holy spirit? Huh?? Blank stares. I said,"just like these M&M's have a M on them, it shows to us that this is the company it belongs to. But you have the mark of the holy spirit in you, and you were marked for ministry, for a purpose. To bring God Glory! Still...crickets.

I just kept going with it. I said notice the colors of the M&M's they are all different. Just like you, and your personalities. Some of you are red..you are bold, competitive, some are blue you are calm, while others are orange and very assertive. Anyways you all are uniquely different, just like these M&M's God gave us different gifts and abilities that He wants us to use to bring Him glory.

I started to get their attention..either that or the promise they would get some M&M's after the lesson. But none the less...they were listening.

One girl said, "but I don't have any talents."  I assured her she did. She maybe just hasn't discovered them yet. But I said there is something that links us all together as Christians that we can use to bring God glory. It is something He commands us to do. LOVE!!

In John 13:34 Jesus says, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another." and  in Matt 5:44 He says, "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that?(in other words how are you showing them you are a Christian.) Our greatest thing we can do is LOVE. Did it not say in 1 Corn 13:13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.?

Then I thought I would drive it home, saving the best for last. I asked the girls..what are these M&M's filled with? Chocolaty goodness. YUM! It's what gives it it's yummy flavor. But let me ask you this...what if it was empty. One of the girls said, "it would just be a empty shell. !!" I said, girls if we aren't filled with God's love, we are empty shells...tasteless.. Oh sure some of us look pretty on the outside, but with out God's love (the chocolaty goodness) on the inside we are nothing but empty shells. But people won't ever experience the wonderful taste of that chocolate if we don't show it.

In John 13:35 it says, "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." Girls this is how you can bring Glory to God. LOVE!! Even when someone is smelly, even if they are mean to you, even if they are obnoxious.

"But that is hard"...lots of moaning and groaning. I told them I know. But we don't go by our feelings, we go by what is right, and you girls have the power of the holy spirit living in you. The same power that healed the sick, and brought people back to life. Pray about it. God never told us it would be easy. "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."John 16:33. Take heart, Jesus makes it worth it. Step out in faith, and obedience, and wait and see what God will do.

We finished our time together by lifting the girls that were struggling with smelly boys, and friendship issues up in prayer. I said a little silent prayer also for each one of those girls. I pray for all us to remember we are a billboard for Christ. God knows our heart, but the world sees our actions. They don't need to see us just going to church..but BEING the church.  This world is tasteless we are the salt and light  (Matt 5:13-16) it is Christ in us that we can show others LOVE or the "chocolaty goodness." We do that with our actions.

On a side note. Our youth group just did a 30 hour famine and our goal was to raise $5,000 for World Vision. It was hard for the kids to go with out eating, and doing community service. But they did it, many thought we wouldn't meet the goal. Me included. But you know what "with God all things are possible" we not only met our goal, but we surpassed it by almost double...we raised 9200$ and being that we met our goal, we were eligible for various government grants which matched it X's 4. For a grand total of $36,000. That feed like 103 kids. 103 Kids will see and feel Christ love for them. Because some kids let their chocolaty goodness flow, and stepped out in faith. WOW! God is good, and it's His love in us that can change the world.