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Legacy Tree

This summer I had the wonderful opportunity to paint a mural at Shorehaven Assisted Living Center. This mural was call the Forever Tree mural. This has got to be one of my favorite mural to do for so many reasons.  It was such a wonderful experience, and God's fingerprints were all over this mural. From the very beginning to the unveiling.

You see this past summer I was in a funk, a rut of sorts. A case of the spiritual blaaahhhss. So I prayed to God! "Please Lord bring your love back to life inside of me." I guess I was feeling just stuck. If you know what I mean? So I prayed" Lord please bless me with opportunities that you can shine through me to others, that others can see you..feel you...and come to know you. Lord I know you gave me an artistic talent for a reason, but I feel so lost with how to use it right now. Please Lord give me a sign as to how you want me to use it."

 I lifted that heart felt prayer up at the end of June. Then my family went on a little vacation around the 4th of July. When we returned there was this message on my answering machine. "Hi, This is Shorehaven Living Center we would like to talk to you about a mural." :) Hee Haw!! I thought this was God's answer to my heartfelt prayer."

As I met with the director of the facility she explained the purpose of the mural.  It would be called the Forever Tree, and wasn't just a piece of art, it actually had a purpose. The facility was going to hang little photos on the tree of residents that have passed on to their "forever" home. Their eternal home. I can't begin to tell you how honored I was to do this mural.

I have painted murals for nurseries, daycares, high schools, bedrooms, kitchens, doctor's offices,  but I never had the opportunity to paint for this stage of life. I felt very humble, and felt God's presence with me like I never did before.

I returned a few days later with the sketch for the director and some of the residents to see. There were lots of oohs and ahhs, but what got me the most was when one of the residents looked up at me from her wheelchair with such a peaceful look on her face, and said "it so beautiful, and to think someday I will be a part of this tree is even more special." Man it took everything in my power to hold it together.  I lifted up a silent prayer saying..."thank you Lord for this wonderful opportunity."

It took me about a week to finish the mural. During that time I got to know many of the elderly residents that lived there. Every morning I walked in, and would see the residents face light up, and call out to their friends, "the artist is here, the artist is here." I have to tell you, that put such a smile on my face. At home I'm know as the mom, the maid, the mama, hey you, and honey. But here I was known as "THE ARTIST!" I kinda liked the sound of that. :)

Many of the residents would come up and watch me paint, and visit with me. I would have to giggle, because one minute I turned around and they were watching me, and the next they were napping in their chairs. LOL!  I thought,"I'm really that exciting hey??"

But I really did love to getting to know them. Each one had a story to share.   

There was Iona who is 101 years old and with a smile that would make your heart melt. She would sing the good morning song every time she was wheeled up to eat her breakfast. She shared with me she is the youngest of 13 children. I told her "well looks like they saved the best for last!!!" She replied..."I like you." Then there was Karina who came over to America from Croatia in 1951. Who shared with me that her husband passed away some time ago. When I told her I'm sorry to hear that.. she replied ..."good riddins!!." Oh, and let's not forget little Milton who would invite me to happy hour (which by the way is at 3:00 in the afternoon.) but when told they were going to have a party to unveil the mural he asked.."Is there gonna be booze?" LOL. Finally, the family dog that lives there, Al. A full size Collie. Oh so sweet, and loved to steal the food from the residents plates. He even came and drank some water in my paint bucket. He was the sweetest dog, and you could tell he loved all of the residents. Each one of them touched my heart and I feet so blessed to be a part of this project.:)

The day of the unveiling party was such a honor. The room was filled with family and friends of the residents that passed on to their forever home. The families were invited to hang a photo of their loved one on the mural. It was such a  beautiful event, memories shared of "she had a strong faith."or He was stubborn." It really was such a wonderful example of the human spirit, and the beauty of life.

It really made me stop and think about life and how short it is.  I couldn't help but reflect what does my life say about me?  What would others say about me when I'm only just a memory? The words to a song popped up in my head. " Was I love, when no one else would show up? Was I Jesus to the least of us? Was my worship more than just a song?"

I'm a Christian, and at times, it's not easy. Sure it's easy to say I'm a Christian,  it's entirely different to act like one, and live a Christ like life.  You see God puts HIS spirit inside each one of us. His spirit helps us to show love for others, to forgive the unforgivable, to be show hope to the hopeless.  He gave each one of us gifts and abilities, to bring Him glory. He calls us His masterpiece, created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. Eph 2:10.

You get one trip through this life, and someday we ALL will stand before a righteous God. When I look back at my life, I want to leave a deposit, a legacy of faith in Jesus Christ. I want my children and grandchildren to stand firm in their faith no matter what this chaotic world throws at them. I want them to know they have a purpose as they wait for Heaven. I want to live my life as a testimony to all this!

I left Shorehaven that summer day with my cup overflowing with love for our Heavenly Father. He gave me a new revelation about my life, put a spark in my heart. I was so grateful to be able to serve Him with the talent He blessed me with. We serve an awesome God! I feel blessed to be loved by the King and it makes my heart want to sing...which I don't do well..so I'll paint

Curse Words and Coffee Pots

I'm sure you have heard the old saying from parents of long ago.."do as I say, not as I do." Well I wish the kids would follow this old rule, sometimes. You see folks I struggle with controlling my tongue sometimes, and every now and then a curse word comes out. Yes, I struggle with cursing! I grew up with curse words being used every time you get mad or hurt. I worked jobs in factories, and restaurants were people's words would make a sailor blush. So this has been a hard area for me to break. Now don't get me wrong I don't go around using the F bomb or anything. But if I stub my toe, yes, my knee jerk reaction is to curse. Or when circumstance are out of control, I sometimes let my actions get that way also.  I'll be the first to admit I need the power of the holy spirit to control my mouth. I'm so much better than I use to be, (thanks be to God) but I'm not where I need to be, and sometimes God uses my children to reveal that to me.

One day my girls were getting ready for school, and my youngest was searching for her other boot and she said, clear as day"where in the he** did I put that other boot." My jaw just dropped! Yep there it was, a little mini me. Ugh, but not the good mini me, the evil filthy mouthed mini me. Then there was the time when my girls were fighting and the older called the younger a poop head. Except she didn't use poop..she used the real word. I felt so shocked when I heard my girls use this language, but with that same reaction. I felt conviction and guilt right along with it. I heard God say, " well, what do you expect? Have you heard yourself lately??"

 So I come before God in prayer and pray.."Oh Lord help me!! I want victory in this area of my life. I know you made me for SO much more.  I want to model what it's like to live for you, and losing it and cursing is so NOT your way." It brings the scripture in Romans 7:15 to mind, I don't really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don't do it. Instead, I do what I hate. And the guilt and shame set in. I'm an awful mom. I'm so screwing up my kids!! Here I want to model what Christ like behavior looks like and when circumstances start getting out of control..why do I let me flesh (feelings, words) do the same??Agh!!!

So when I reach this point of frustration what's a mom to do? Well, I could let satan win and beat me up with his lies. And honestly, I do let him do that at times.  It takes me to turn to God and His word to get me out of my pit of shame. His word says I have His spirit in me. I have the power to deny my flesh, to deny my will, and surrender to HIS. The holy man HIMself said in Matthew "if anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me." Oh Lord I so want to deny my sinful nature, and follow you. I want to be lead by you. But this takes a daily choice to read His word, to make the effort to spend time with Him in prayer that He will save me from myself. I want to be led by the Spirit, I want to produce fruit, not just by my actions, but by my words also.

God is so faithful, he knows when we need little nuggets of confirmation, those sugar cubes of encouragement. With His help we are doing alright!

The other day my hubby worked a 12 hours day, came home slurped supper down, and left for a youth group meeting, (after the night before being gone til 11:00 cleaning up after a church event.) He was worn out, I could tell. I decided to make him his coffee for the morning, and leave a little note of encouragement for him on the coffee pot. I then went about my business, laundry and tucking kids in. I came back in the kitchen after my kids were in bed, and my girls covered the coffee pot and kitchen with little "love" notes for their daddy. It made this mama's heart smile, and I heard God say, "you ARE leading by example my child. Those little eyes are watching you.  Keep up the good work."

Thanks God for always knowing when I need those nuggets of truth!
Will you pray with me?

Lord help me to deny my sinful nature so that I can come to know you more. I thank you Lord for your faithfulness, and knowing I'm not where I need to be, but so grateful that I'm not where I used to be.   May you be glorified by not just what I say, but what I do also. Lord help me to handle those times when things are out of control, and  thank you Lord for those coffee pot moments!

Perspective

A few weeks ago in youth group we talked about giving up stuff, something, idols in your life that may be standing in your way of getting to know the Lord better.  Also, maybe give up something, so that others can be blessed.  More on this in the weeks to come. ;)

 I have to admit I got a little frustrated with my group of girls when I challenged them to not watch a certain show, or to give up texting every 5 seconds, and perhaps devote some time to God. I mean really...look at what He did for you. This is a very HARD concept to teach 12/13 year old girls. I also have to remember what I was like at that age. It was all about me, me and more me. But nonetheless, God was using me to do some planting of seeds and that is a good thing..who knows what kind of harvest will grow...right??? Anyways I wish I would have had this video..it really puts things into perspective. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxyhfiCO_XQ

 

Climbing Trees

Those of you with teenagers know there are up and downs. Man, moods change like the wind. It’s hard to stay calm and try to keep your joy… especially when your child or a child is hurting, and questioning God. Why did God make me so and so? What is God’s plan for my life?  Does He even care about me? I feel so invisible. These are things I‘ve experienced as a young girl, and I hear all the time not just in my home but at our youth group and school where I’m listening and serving kids. 

It reminds me of a story of Zacchaeus in Luke 19:1-10. I’m sure you have heard about him in Sunday school. He’s the dude that hung out in the tree to get a chance to see Jesus, and ended up having him over for supper.  But there is so much more to that story. You see Zacchaeus was the dirtball tax collector. In bible times tax collectors were bad dudes.  But Zacchaeus heard Jesus was coming to town and “sought to see who he was”… but was too short so he climbed a tree. Jesus came to the place where Zacchaeus was and called him out and said” I’m staying at your place.”  Of course Zacchaeus agreed and the bible says he received him “joyfully”.  Of course this had the town all a buzz… Did you see Jesus was eating with a … with a… sinner?  But Zacchaeus didn’t care; he knew this was his one chance at redemption. In a nutshell he told Jesus he wanted to change and give back everything and then some. Because of Zacchaeus’ heart change, salvation came to him and the Lord said “I have come to seek and save what was lost.”   You see this world saw Zacchaeus as a dirt bag sinner, but Jesus  came to the place where he was and called him the way He saw him… what he could be (did you know Zacchaeus means pure-righteous)

Maybe you don’t measure up to this worlds standards. You aren’t thin enough, you’re not outgoing enough, if God knew what you did there’s no way He would love you… But you see God does not see you the way the world sees you. Just like I tell my sweet daughter when she is crying over her shyness and wondering how God is ever going to use a quiet, shy girl.  He sees everything in you that you could be, and certainly not by this worlds standards and He uses the meek and the mild to shame the wise.  In Zacchaeus’ case he became righteous. The question is do you want it? Will you seek it, do you trust it? What is standing in your way of seeing Jesus, of experiencing His goodness for your life? Is it un-forgiveness, Guilt, Shame?   Let me encourage you to give that to the Lord. Don’t buy into this world’s lies. He wants to go to the place where you dwell.  Make your wrongs right. To seek and save what was lost. It may take some work. You may have to climb a tree or two. Don’t let obstacles get in your way… believe in the way the Lord sees you. HIS beloved child, created to do amazing things!